Monday, June 27, 2011


    Everyday that I go on Facebook or Twitter there is almost ALWAYS  a female complaining about how men are worthless, no good, dogs, or just plain stupid. I guess that's why for this blog, I've decided to applaud those men who are trying to do something with their lives. Open your eyes ladies! All men do not keep the pants to their ankles, all men do not take advantage of you, all men do not plan to sit home and do nothing with their lives. If you just so happen to run into a man like that (which we will at least once in our lives), then maybe we need to self-evaluate our selves. I am proud to say I know a couple of hand filled men (younger and older) who are making something out themselves and are taking advantage of all the opportunities that comes their way. If they have a child, they will take charge and responsibilities for their actions. If they have one job, they will apply to a bunch more just so they could be stable and stay active.

    I for one can say that I made a great "investment". I couldn't ask for a better boyfriend. He is persistent in his studies, gives back to his community, was active on campus, goes to church, respectful, kind, and has a sense of humor. But he isn't the only man in the world that has these characteristics. Actually, one of his friends--and former roommate--has these same characteristics. His niche would be more of cooking, comedy, intelligence, and respect. Honestly ladies, what more can you ask for?

    A lot of the times, we ask for someone good to come into our lives, but once we get that "good" person we tend to ask for more. We seek that ideal "perfect" guy that isn't out there to be real about the situation. I guarantee you that if they would, they could sit you down and write a list about things that they can't stand about you. (One of them probably is nagging or complaining which is pretty common in females)

    If you seek for a "bad boy" then what do you think your going to get? A "good boy"? No. If you seek for a person like your ex, then sorry to be the one to tell this to you, but your going to get the same results! Hello! It's basic math people.


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